How to let go of parental guilt and become a parent your children deserves

The demands of modern living require most parents to spend time at work than at home looking after their children. Because of that Dr Schomer says being a parent can make you feel bad – Parental guilt.

According to Dr Schoemer, Parental guilt is a bad feeling every parent experiences about how they have raised their children.

Guilt is a feeling of remorse arising from a sense of inadequacy or imagined wrong doing

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

As a parent, have I been there for my kids, have I supported them enough, am I attentive enough, am I present enough, the list is endless.

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

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This article first appeared on 702 : How to let go of parental guilt and become a parent your children deserves


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