Can people who suffer from excessive attention seeking disorder be helped?

Getting attention is necessary; all humans need it. However, according to Dr Schomer, creating attention seeking drama in adult relations is a waste of time and it has negative effect on the relationship because no one can love a person who is acting out on a regular basis.

Listen to the full conversation on the Redi Tlhabi Show:

It becomes a big problem in relationships when adults act out in an excessive attention seeking manner

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

Some people say to their partners ‘I should just kill myself’ to see how their partners will react

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

That sentence is unquestionably attention seeking behaviour and is unhealthy

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

This article first appeared on 702 : Can people who suffer from excessive attention seeking disorder be helped?


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