How the #MeToo movement is changing approaches to dating and sex

Clinical sexologist Dr Eve believes the #MeToo movement is beginning to shift the way men and women engage with sex.

Also read: Why 'I believe you' are important words for sexual assault survivors

The #MeToo movement is an international campaign against sexual harassment and assault which spread online.

Survivors used the hashtag on social media to help demonstrate the widespread prevalence of sexual harassment and abuse.

Dr Eve says the movement has sparked important discussions about consent, sexual etiquette, sexual agency and negotiating sexual desires.

Read: 10 misconceptions about sex that thwart consent (and some complicated scenarios)

I do feel the tremendous pain of what we are going through now, both men and women.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

We need to talk about what sexual etiquette is.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

Dr Eve has started her own campaign titled 'SexAfter #MeToo' and discusses some personal experiences with callers.

Visit Dr Eve's website for more.

Listen to the insightful discussion during the Talking Sex feature:


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