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Here are the best toys to close the orgasm gap and take your sex life up a notch

7 December 2018 1:51 PM
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Dr Eve says that sex toys help close the frustrating orgasm gap and can increase intimacy and connection, alone or with a partner.

Clinical sexologist Dr Eve has hauled out her sex toys for her annual spicy guide to enhanced pleasure.

Dr Eve explains that sex toys help close the frustrating orgasm gap and can increase intimacy and connection, alone or with a partner.

The orgasm gap refers to the disparity of orgasms between men and women within heterosexual relationships.

Sex toys help many women who feel suppressed because of lack of orgasms.

Read: Dr Eve busts myths about the female orgasm that could change your sex life

When it comes to sex toys, there's nothing to be ashamed of, Dr Eve says.

In fact, she believes that sex toys are an integral part of the future of sex.

She adds that they also help people with disabilities or chronic illnesses who want to be stimulated.

Also read: Tell me what you want: Study reveals most common sexual fantasies

Dr Eve says the stigma around sex toys is linked to patriarchy and society's need to protect the fragile male ego.

According to Dr Eve, cheap, battery-operated sex toys are becoming a thing of the past as the future of sex toys advances.

Here are some sex toys that she recommends as an investment:

Read more: Sex driving a wedge in your relationship? Uncovering sexual desire discrepancy

Men go into a sexual situation knowing that an orgasm is inevitable. In fact, they work really hard to try and delay it.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

For women, the average time getting to the orgasm can be anything from 15 to 20 minutes, maybe longer depending on the situation. It goes much quicker when she's on her own and can be instant when using a sex toy.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

Sex toys aren't the enemy and they won't replace men.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

Women must use the air technology vacuum pump clitoral vibrator very gently or they'll be shocked into an instance orgasm.

Dr Eve, clinical sexologist

Dr Eve shares her expert tips on the best gadgets on the market and callers share their views on sex toys.

Visit Dr Eve's website to learn more. Shop her items on her online store here.

Listen to the titillating chat on The Talking Sex feature with Eusebius McKaiser:


7 December 2018 1:51 PM
Tags:
Sex
Relationships
Sex toys
Vibrator
Dr Eve
Masturbation
sexuality
pleasure
#TalkingSex
orgasm
orgasm gap

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